it takes pretty much a miracle to piss me off, and it takes that much more to make me tell you off in front of anyone, or to tell you off period. why? i let things slide, i'm laid back, and i like to skulk back off the scene as quietly as i came in. i don't like drama, and i avoid it like the plague...and in general, i'd rather be all fucked up and pissy over something than have to unload it on someone, especially if it's petty.
but.
this is getting fucking ridiculous. and thus, as a world wide web admission, i'm giving up on dating completely
why?
because i'm tired. i'm tired of being lied to. i'm tired of feeling used. i'm tired of being the apple of someones eye until someone better comes along, and getting knocked off without so much as an explanation. i'm tired of guys thinking that if they ignore me i'll go away--even though i always do. i'm tired of them getting off absolutely unscathed and getting to have their cake and eat it too, while i sit and wonder how i fucked up and just credit it as not being good enough. i'm tired of having to be the bigger person, and "be cool" and act like none of it matters...
i'm tired of feeling wortheless.
so...for now....i give up.
completely.
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you don't think guys go thru the same self doubts and sense of rejection? My sibs egos were even more tender than mine when we were all in the "Dating Game"
Docs advice,,,two aspirin and a couple of Mai Tai's *S*
That's the point Mallory. My brother goes through the same thing, same with my friends; however, the guys I end up dating don't. They just don't care.
And change Mai Tai to a few Jack and Coke's, and you have a deal :)
i have looked at the cowardless dickless assholes i've dated....and sadly, no real pattern....
i just need a break i think. unless something great somes along, i'm not going to bother.
i'm not sad or depressed about the past relationships i've had or anything..just kind of fed up with it. rather happy with my decision to swear off dating. makes life easier.
though no more free nights out. damn!
in other news
how awesome!
nope. don't let guys buy me drinks usually, unless i am interested.
if a guy sends me a drink, i usually go over to him, say thanks..but no, and give the drink back.
i'm weird!
it's the science geek in me?
c'mon! that's pretty cool. think about it...they put electrodes in the guys spinal column that can be activated!
....
sorry. i'll never do it again.
dude you look like fuckin fez!
how about this:
??
rm: who says they ruined it? i ruined it myself. i need to regroup, re think my tactics...iono....maybe focus on whatever career on i plan on
jersey: go for the gold man
Elle- Sorry to hear about your dating woes. Most guys suck! And the rest of us search for a long time to find the right person. I kissed a lot of trolls and even married one before I found the right person. Now we are married and happy. It took me until 30 to find the right person. Be patient and be picky! The right person will find you when it's time. Until then confide in your friends, have a good time, and focus on what matters to you. (I feel like breaking out into "Don't Stop Believing" by Journey...but I won't) see ya later- B
Nah I'm with Elle, this dating BS sucks. No one is straight up about anything and ya can't ever figure out where someone's head is. About ready to join her in the giving up of the wholething. I'm moving back to my "it's a miracle the species propigates at all" phase...
Doc always know's what's up. propigation is easy, by the way.
Brian: so i'll just wait 7 years till i start up again. that puts me at 30 :)
Not saying you have to wait until 30, just trying to say it may take some time.
RE: propigation.
Well maybe for your 1/2 of the race... :)
Jersey---i got my sources man. that fro is hot though.
rm: you said that?! OH MY GOD! blasphemor! G-d have mercy on your soul! hehe
MD: vegas wedding? tacky!
Good point Ed...but i'm not one of those people who can date 4 people and be okay with it. defeats the purpose of giving someone a fair shot, i think, if at the first sign of trouble you can go run off with someone else..or, moreso, if you are consantly comparing them to the others. like i said, i'm fucked in the head.
rm--s'all good. meet me at the bar, 20 minutes. we need a kosher wine break.
was it nike that bought puma?
reebok...adidas needs to save that money haha...hmmm
buttah ... fuck them fucking-ass fucking fuckwad fuckers!
you be you ... and stock up on "D" batteries.
nukka-ette, might want to clarify that i'm not the reason for this brigade against men. i sense black-ops feels i am.
in other news. get over it, and just marry me already. you can work your ass off, i'll sit home and bitch and moan abouthow much i hate brooklyn. it's a match made in mothah-fuckin'-heaven!
comRAD: so you're saying my dad was a pussy around women before he got married to my ruthless awesomely strong mom? shit!
d: DD batteries? yowzers!
E: cute! haha move to cleveland then muhahahaha
buttah: are you more of a "rabbit" gal?
somehow I just had you pegged as a massive vibrator kind of lady ;o)
I would offer to hook you up with some native Guam boys ... but adultery is built into our culture here ... LOL
clarification: e and i are friends, nothing more. e has spent the last three nights trying to convince me to marry him so he may get a strategic tax break, and also has been trying to convince me that i need to give myself more credit, and the assholes i base my opinons on less. blah blah blah blah
as for that post i had about "5 times on friday" etc. i was talking about the new video game i got and how many times i kicked his ass at it daily :)
i don't even own a vibrator!!
toys are bad. cant' do it yourself, you shouldn't be doing it. besides, toys set up reallllllly REALLLLLY unfair expectations for the men.
i'm harmless. promise. besides, if i did fuck up anything i'd have a 6'5'' 280lb guy kicking my scrawny ass.
not against my pops. wasn't a rant, was an admission? fuck it. i'm a girl. let me revel in my harmonal imabalances :)
ummmm, i haven't married e yet cause uhhhh....well? ummmmm...jakie would kill him?
yea. why haven't our wedding bells rung yet?
e: pipe it! and i'd be more worried about gary than jakie, now that i think about it :)
yea yea, trying to keep the jew man down. i'mma turn up my matis yahu, sing it loud cause i'm fuckin proud. shit! see you tomorrow dollface.
*blinks*
you will?
you're coming up with dan again? hmm
Well if you lives in MPLS I'd date you.
get yerself a rabbit girl ... I've never known a woman with one who didn't want to leave it part of her estate in the will ...
and no one ever said vibrators had to be strictly solo equipment ;o)
i went to a horse race in hong kong.....my dad bet on "the erstwhile engineer" or something....he won! engineers and their bonds...even when horses.
Murph: i'm not moping you fuckhead!
I think murph=larry from "Three's Company"
not that I think of you as Janet, buttah ... or t-money as chrissie ... or me as jack ... at home cooking when you two crazy, braless gals come home tipsy ...
umm ... sorry ... where was I?
i get to be the ugly one. haha nice! thanks D'zer =0)
I was only going by hair color ... and brunette=janet
c'mon knock on my door
take a step that is new
where the kisses are hers and hers and his
three's company too
i'd still do you Jersey. afro and all :)
amateur: care to be Mr. Furley?
You'd rather be Mr. Roper? Or MRS. Roper?
can i be mrs. roper?
then YOU would need the afro ... and an ungodly ugly mumu.
no ... you are no mrs. roper
you could be the bald guy's hot wife from the Ropers' TV show
can i just get a role that pits me with johnny depp and a really insanely involved and graphic sex scene?
hey jersey....least tv was good back then.
sure ... ever watch the ninth gate?
you can be THAT hot chick.
but you only can have the depp from benny and joon
Don't give up on dating! There are plenty of great people out there, just waiting for somebody to come along for them.
Just avoid the ones who look like they scrub washboards with their faces.
no shit ... if I wanna see dumbasses in a reality setting, I'll just watch my own fucking life
now they got troubled kids in the wilderness? a modified people's court with lawyers fresh outta law school?
I'm still waiting for america's stinkiest shit piles
hey..but when i get on the apprentice..y'all gotta watch!
serious. made props to the dzer
damn ... THAT's the funniest thing I ever said?
I'll never understand you mainlanders ... *snark*
are you admitting to being a teabagger?
the nestea plunge?
wouldn't that be a first tea bag experience
TheGameBrain: i swore off drinking too...but it lasted at least a month everytime i did!
*is proud to share my Welcome to the Gutter award with buttah*
neastea is tea! taking a tea plunge is tea bagging! DUH!
*bangs head against desk* how is it only 10:47am?
aww thanks for sharing Dzer..but it's all yours. you said it first :)
no clue where the dude is. it's 8am there..she should be here soon? jesus.
but a plunge that has NOTHING to do with tea.
people take sex to seriously. i swear.
aww fuckin cali drivers. were they asian?!!
i wuffer you too man!
feather. i like!
should be an amusement park at all times!
uhhhhhhh
think of palatial powder. board on feet.
regal beagle? the place in gaywood with the beer and tv's while you get your haircut?
yea. no games.
eventually the truth/reality comes through anyway. game or no game
i really don't understand why it's so hard to be up front.
if you cant join em,
have their baby and sue for alimony.
stupid to take things seriously until you have that "so are we exclusive" bullshit talk Ed, but there has to be a point where you do put some stock in the bullshit they sputter forth, no?
KID?! are you fucking nuts?!!
yup. i mean if the overall gist is that you just can't trust the asshole regardless of what he says and thus it's my fault for believing whatever he says....what point is there?
seriously.
welfare your ass.
something to do
i thought every jew was a huge matis yahu fan?
rofl.
yeah teresa, i was about to write a little facetious "asshole magnet" but i got fuckin hungry so i went to BK, cuz we dont have carl jr.s here in WDC.
oh btw, George Bush is on 5 weeks of vacation.
Wish i could get that.
i revel in my asshole magnetism!
i also suck at beer golf. jesus christ!
yea! what the fuck is with that...have to guess which tube goes where. GAY!
dude, we should. write a book "how to attract a guy who isn't worth the spit you just stepped in"
he's got awesome music comRAD!
its hopeful, and not overly "my god fuckin kicks your gods ass"
alright Ed..how should we treat guys?
*bows* i try =0). but it's true!
i want pizza.
i got a 53. ass bastard.
*vomits*
no but seriously..i want pizza..have to go get that in a few
Good post. Fuck them liars. Chicken shits all of them.
you can do it amatuer
*sips her beer while sitting on her deck*
i'm only home for lunch! JAYSUS!
parents are out with my gramps, someone has to come home and let sofie out in the afternoon.
you envy me Jersey...underneath all that fuckin hate, you may actually like me =0)
for the record: never have, never will own a sex toy of any kind that isn't for coupled sex only.
until i'm married...or give up all hope on any male ever getting me to orgasm.
end "for the record"
it's "He'Brew! The Chosen Beer. Genesis Ale"
hahaha! the shits not bad actually
you need to try 1664 dude.
Jersey....i think i earned it. i flew from japan to korea for a 3 hour meeting, and back to japan for a dinner meeting....that blew.
let it all out Jersey
*gives big cleavage hug*
your welcome.
hosebeast.
is ad money taxed?
i'm sitting at home....exciting!
Quick theory... the "L L" Theory.
They're ALL losers...you just have to find the "least" loser.
Have faith. That loser is out there waiting for you...
i'm sure the jewish midget across the street from your parents house is still available.
word Ed. word!
bitter?
people?
never
Men have feelings as well..just in other places....holla.
straight ren and stimpy style. log and all.
i'm going to have to disagree with prez there on just about everything he wrote. I know for a fact I'd fuck you over.
Awesome...honesty is the key..
and at least chivalry isnt dead...
johnny....i knew i loved you for a reason
while i'm on the honest streak.. i don't want teresa to feel left. i'd fuck you over to... definately for one of those asians.. since they are in season.
How many dates can a girl go on where she leaves thinking they both had a great time and yet she never hears from him again? Unfortunately, I seem to be in the process of finding that out...
I'm giving up dating with you (although then I won't have any new blog fodder).
-MW
you think #1 your hot amd #2 your a gangster...both are things that are good for repenting for...so repent heathen.
God 56
sinners 0
TCOJCOEMLDS
and you think your hot...which is a sin.
YES!
God 57
sinners 0
TCOJCOEMLDS
Hmm, tate Dating Doctor woman might have something to say about this.
Hey there!
Could nt agree more with ur post!!
I so think that too!
nice post!
Most guys are assholes. There are around 100 of them in the nation that are not assholes. It's hard to plug through and find one of them... it's damn hard. I hear ya. I'm tired of getting dumped, pissed off, not called back, used, etc. I'm even more tired of stopping myself from doing degrading things to get revenge... There is a way to let a girl down easy without being an asshole about it... honesty, maturity... something very very few men will ever have.
So, yes, I'm a bitter and jaded girl. I have no energy left to get upset when I get dicked over. So I just don't believe anything a man says. Prove it asshole! Then maybe we'll talk.
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I stumbled across all this talk about men and how you want to give up....
Read the Desperate or Desirable devotional I posted if you get the chance....This site is really for my small group bible study girls, but I want you to read the devotionals I have posted. I know I am a woman of faith and some of you might be offended but I am used to it. Christ was definitly controverisal.
But I was living in the same hell with men until I began to study the bible and Christ has shown me what it is to be a whole woman without a man and now, well, I know exactly what to look for in a man, have met some wonderful men and don't waste my time with those who do not know how to treat a real lady. I used to party and now i still do..just with unbelievable peace! My whole life rocks!
I wrote this hoping women would be empowered and learn to trust God for a relatinship the way he has always meant for it to be.
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